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Episode #5 - Promote Relatedness

1/18/2019

 
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Taking a closer look at the fourth of "The Five 'P's": Promote Relatedness, and how it can reverse the social threats of jury selection.
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Don't Miss These Highlights:
  • ​Time alone does not form groups.  You do!  [3:19]
  • Group formation benefits both jurors and you in a variety of ways [6:15]
  • The first 2 key tactics to forming a group [7:48]
  • Step three in group formation [11:13]
  • Reversing the "fight of flight" response [13:18]
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  • ​Check out David Rock's book Your Brain At Work.
  • Catch up on earlier episodes.  Listen to Ep. 2: We Must Preserve A Juror's Status, Ep. 3 Get To The Point, and Ep. 4: Protect Autonomy.
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Four Nonverbal Areas for Group Formation
Transcript:

Welcome to the "From Hostage to Hero" Podcast, my name is Sari de la Motte, aka: the Attorney Whisperer. I have to apologize to my listeners for such a break in the podcast; I’ve been working on my book, From Hostage to Hero, due out this year, but now I am back in the swing of things and looking forward to talking with you regularly!
 
To get us back on track, in the first four podcasts I introduced you to the concept of juror as hostage. We talked about the S-C-A-R-F model from David Rock, author of Your Brain at Work, and the five social needs that when threatened, can activate the survival instinct in the brain. And those things are: Status, Certainty, Autonomy, Relatedness and Fairness. 
 
To reverse the threat jury selection creates we’ve been looking at The Five ‘P’s:

  1. Preserve Status
  2. Provide Certainty
  3. Protect Autonomy
  4. Promote Relatedness
  5. Prove Fairness
 
We’ve been looking at the last three in the last podcasts – Status, Certainty, and Autonomy. Today let’s look at how to Promote Relatedness.

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